3. Mentally sexual. Your body might be perfect yet it’s sad if men find only this part of you attractive. Relationships based only on the physical part do not last long. Make yourself irresistibly sexy by being smart. Women who are educated and interesting to talk to look gorgeous to most men. Your passion for your career will also make you sexy. If you enjoy what you do you feel confident. Your job keeps you busy. Once you see that people need and appreciate what you do, you become a leading lady in the majority of people’s eyes. This, in turn, makes you happy. Happy women attract men – it’s pleasant to be around such girls.